Menopausal helper

Posted by Nutmeg (240 days ago)

My helper has started going through menopause and seems to be really struggling. I'm not sure what to do - she has been a great employee for more than 6 years and is fantastic with our pets (my babies). But lately she is tired and sloppy and takes naps all the time. She says she feels sick and weak and is having trouble sleeping from the hot flashes.

Not having gone through this yet myself, I have no idea how to advise. The doctors have just given her panadol and told her to wait it out. I don't know if hormone replacement therapy works or is outrageously expensive. So I don't know if I should suggest it. I really sympathize with her, but she is starting to do a poor job. Help!

(I am based in Hong Kong)

Posted by cara (239 days ago)

it hit my mum like a ton of bricks. she went through it for YEARS! still she gets the odd hot flash...

she finally resorted to a natural medicine shop and got some tablets. she had to take them for about a week before there was any change, but eventually they worked. i'm sorry, i have no idea what they were called, but i'm sure you'll find something similar here.

good luck!

(I am based in Hong Kong)

Posted by souffleQueen (239 days ago)

I've used evening primrose oil due to my hormonal imbalance ( I'm not on that stage yet.. early 30's) and has recommended it to my mom, aunt and friends and they all old me it made a lot of difference. Also I remember one friend who has having hot flushes but not anymore as her GP gave her some pills for it. I could ask her her GP or the name of the pill for you, if you want.

Do let me know.

(I am based in Hong Kong)

Posted by moonbear111 (239 days ago)

Hi souffleQueen - would love to get the name of the pill if its not too much trouble. To all - thanks so much for the suggestions!

(I am based in Hong Kong)

Posted by souffleQueen (239 days ago)

errr is Moonbear111 and Nutmeg the same?


Anyway, the pill is not available over the counter but here is here OB-Gyne's details

Dr. Helen Hsu
Rm.1102 Champion Bldg
301-309 Nathan Road, Kln
( Take MTR to Jordan, find exit to Yueh Wha Building and it's right there, she said)

appointment is needed so call at: 2384 9737

(I am based in Hong Kong)