Can anyone suggest a good hotel/resort(4-5 star), that would have these:
1) Good for kids (4 yr, and 20 months )
2) Beautiful pool area for kids (things to play, not just a pool) E.g. Slide, fountains...etc.
3) Near beach
4) Near shopping/dining options
5) Not long distance from airport
6) Good spa
I saw your other posts and understand your frustration. I have no personal experience but have done my own research looking for places. Most of the answer to your question depends on your price range! Also, I was looking for something very different, probably more seclusion than could be found on Koh Samui. I suggest you look for reviews on tripadvisor.com and virtualtourist.com There is also http://www.sawadee.com/hotels/samui.html
No idea too, found it really difficult looking through all the details on the internet. Finally chose the Rocky Resort for June as I've heard it's good for kids, but can't let you know until after I've been! :-)
Central Samui Beach Resort has good facilities for kids, has a good spa and is on the beach with a huge lawn/garden between hotel and sea. Check out their web site. Downside is that it is in Chaweng (busiest tourist area) although towards the quieter end.
Meiquoren, there are still many quiet, secluded resorts in Samui, particularly down south.