It depends of what kind of club you went to....if you went to somewhere like Hei Hei or Sugar, then your chances of meeting a guy who is really looking for a relationship are EXTREMELY slim I'm afraid to say. Perhaps you are just looking in the wrong places....clubs are probably more for the young bucks who want to drink lots and dance the night awa....how can you have a decent conversation in that environment is beyond me.....
Why don't you try some nice trendy bars that are around....C Bar is a good "boy watching" place, and there are nice guys that stumble in there, La Dolce Vita is another, Stauntons in Soho, Baby Buddha, Soda......
kooliestgirl....nice guys are around, so don't fret yet!!!!!
you could try taking things a bit more slowly and get some "pen" friends. there are few good looking australian guys in prison here. if you like horse racing now would be a good time to start sending some letters off.