can't figure out

Posted by zonked (441 days ago)

Strength -- an asset or a burden???

And in regard to relationships -- are men attracted to the needy and weak types or the strong and independent types?

(I am based in Hong Kong)

Posted by tulip_daffodil (441 days ago)

It's all depends on indiividual personality.

(I am based in Singapore)

Posted by gsweetie (440 days ago)

i know that gemini and aquarian male would enjoy dating strong intelligent capable women and not feel threatened or overshined.

(I am based in Guangzhou)

Posted by calendargirl (440 days ago)

It doesn't really matter what men want in general, does it? Seems that dependent men end up with independent women and vice versa... just be yourself... If we dropped the masks finding the right one [instead of merely anyone] would be a lot easier.

(I am based in Hong Kong)

Posted by setanta (440 days ago)

Men like the needy and weak types. If you are strong and independent you are destined to end up single... or divorced.

(I am based in Hong Kong)

Posted by lambada (440 days ago)

Actually we like the strong independent women in theory - we just can't always cope with them:-) Why do 90% of the women I date end up to be Aries? I'm scorpio. Both my ex-wife and ex G/F had the same birthdate. It's one of my first questions now! Are most women born in April?

(I am based in Hong Kong)

Posted by naima (439 days ago)

or bisexual :)

Its always been an asset. If he can't handle it then let it be. Its hard to have a grown-up baby tagging along with you anyways.

(I am based in Guangzhou)

Posted by balzac (439 days ago)

Labada- Im a born in July -cancer

I met an Aries who says the same thing as you!

To answer your question, well it really depends on the man's preference. The weak, Mommy dependent type of boys will prefer to strong, independent woman to boss him around and take care of his finances.

(I am based in Singapore)