Question to Guys - how to show interest, but not to scare you off

Posted by hys (228 days ago)

Sometimes we girl don't know how to show interest, since most of guys are easily scared.

If there is a connection, how to let the guy know that we want to go from casual dating to serious BF/GF?

or the best tactic is to wait for him to pop the question?

(I am based in Shanghai)

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Posted by tigerbay (228 days ago)

At the risk of being called racist a little more detail will help.

Are you Asian or Caucasian?
Is your target Asian or Caucasian?

(I am based in Shanghai)

Posted by hys (228 days ago)

Canadian (F) vs Norwegian (M)

(I am based in Shanghai)

Posted by papa midnight (228 days ago)

Actually as I guy I have no issues with the girl making the next move, sometimes we can be a little slow on the up take you know! The worse that can happening is that he may not be that interested but if you never try you will never know right?

(I am based in Hong Kong)

Posted by hys (228 days ago)

Been going out casually for 3-4 months. He told me he would like to see me more in 2008. He's so damn polite sometimes. Don't really know how to read him

(I am based in Shanghai)

Posted by Little Carmen (228 days ago)

Well, then just live in the moment...dont plan too much...if its meant to be it will be. What do you want to hear? "I want to go steady with YOU"? Or "Lets be exclusive"? I mean, wouldnt you know? Do you think he's dating others? If you tell him how you feel about him you will find out how he feels about you, right? If he gets scared off (after 4 months of knowing you) then you are with the wrong guy.

When you know you like someone, what does it matter with the whole games thing? I mean, if he likes you, he'll show it if you are open to it.

(I am based in Hong Kong)

Posted by closetcase (224 days ago)

If you feel uncertain about his feeling towards you., maybe he IS uncertain about his feeling towards you?

Don't rush it, enjoy the moment!

(I am based in Shanghai)

Posted by Robbie2007 (222 days ago)

Just go ahead and ask the man out the same way men ask women out. Men who are scared off by that aren't worth your time anyways. If you get a man and want to marry him, then by all means propose to him as well. With men and women supposedly on equal playing fields nowadays, then women should by all means take equal responsibility in relationships as well, and that includes taking the initiative once in a while.

(I am based in Unspecified)

Posted by Morning.side.speed (221 days ago)

The best way should be avoid all the attention to any other guy around him,make him like the one and only who lives there.

(I am based in Beijing)

Posted by Hila Rious (221 days ago)

doing a Sharon Stone on them definitley gets thier attention!

(I am based in Hong Kong)

Posted by Morning.side.speed (221 days ago)

With the ice digger?

(I am based in Beijing)

Posted by Hila Rious (220 days ago)

no, with the knickers or lack thereof

(I am based in Hong Kong)

Posted by closetcase (219 days ago)

that's only sex, NEVER use sex to lure a man in the beginning of relationship

(I am based in Shanghai)

Posted by Hila Rious (218 days ago)

women offer sex in search of love, men offer love in search of sex, did'nt your mom teach you the rules of the game

geez don't go changing the rules lest we all get confused as to what to do

oh no, wiat a minute, we are already all confused and do not know what to do

(I am based in Hong Kong)